Ice Skating

Saturday was Nico's first ice skating lesson. Alexis also had a skating class that morning and we ran into them in the parking lot as we were making our way inside. Lexie and Nico were in different classes since Lexie had already gone through SnowPlow 1. She was in SnowPlow 2 now. Nico was in a class with other 4 year olds, and 5 year olds and maybe a 6 year old. He was very excited about it at first. The place was packed with kids and parents, and we tried to keep up as his class made their way to the ice through throngs of people. He got a little behind, and spent a few minutes on the ice waiting for someone to notice him to take him to the spot where his class was, since he lost track of them and couldn't skate on his own. Me not having skates was very hard for me! I couldn't go get him when he was wandering, and couldn't let him know that I could see him. Then one of the volunteers found him and took him to his class. Yay!

When he got there, he was so afraid of falling that he was pretty immobile. I could see his mouth moving "Please help me", he was saying it over and over and over again. It was so loud in there I'm not surprised no one heard him. His lip was quivering. I was in full blown Momma anxiety wanting to run out there and grab him to tell him he wasn't alone and that I heard him and that of course I would help him. The class was fast paced and Nico spent about five minutes making his way slowly to the exit. I wanted to run out there and scoop him up. When he got to the exit, I was waiting, and he finally saw me, lamented the fact that he wanted to skate with Lexie, and then told me he wanted to go back to his class. Yay! He was on his way. And he knew now that he could see me through the glass. A volunteer helped him back over there, he engaged in the play for a few minutes and then the rest of the class he spent making his way again back to the exit. While he was on his way over, class ended. When he made it to me his eyes were red and welling with tears and told me he wanted to leave. I said OK and we put his name badge away and then he said "No I want to skate with Lexie." After the classes they let the kids play on the ice in a section that has been coned off. This is what Nico had been looking forward to the whole time, to re-enact what him and Lexie and Bruce did that day a few weeks ago when we went ice skating for the first time. He wanted to get himself one of those ice skating walkers and let Lexie push him around in it. So that's exactly what he did. He smiled so big the whole time! They played for about 10 minutes. When we got in the car, Nico kept telling me he didn't want to come back.

I don't want to force Nico to do anything that he doesn't want to do, but I know also how much he wants to learn to skate. So I gave it a day or two and then sat down with him and we talked about it. I told him that it will take a lot of hard work to learn how to skate, and that it was going to take time. I gave him 3 steps to do whenever he needs help on the ice. 1 - Ask God for help, 2 - Ask someone else for help as loud as he can and 3 - Keep trying until help comes. Then I asked him how he would like going skating with just me so we could practice his skills before his next lesson. He said OK and we planned it for Thursday. Today! So this morning we showed up 5 minutes after they opened and when we got on the ice there was just one other person besides us. They hadn't even started up the music yet so it was very quiet.

The very first thing we practiced was falling. Once Nico learned how fun and OK it was to FALL and then get back up, it was a lot easier on him. We got some good tips from an elderly gentleman to look straight ahead and to keep your feet together. We were there for about an hour, but only on the rink for about 30 minutes.  Potty break, tying/untying shoes, and then we stopped to play an arcade game and get a prize from one of the machines.

Getting tickled by Daddy

Nico asked "Take a picture of me with my ice cream cone!" He said "Cheeeeese" without any prompting.

Normal things happened this week, too. Church, then we saw Papa and Lexie on Sunday when they came to drop off eggs. Then school, and legos. 

I got a video of Nico reading the Pigeon Takes a Bath book all by himself, but didn't have time today to edit it and upload it, so look for it next week. He has most of the book memorized.